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Not All Men Are Evil.

Listen up. 
PEOPLE OF ALL BACKGROUNDS,
Binary and Non-Binary. 
There are some SERIOUS misconceptions about MEN that a lot of people hold onto that are holding us ALL back. 

Men are not to be generalized about.
Do YOU like it when people generalize about your identity?
NO.
So stop being a hypocrite.

We live in a world where EVERYONE is being GROOMED to consume information that resonates at a LOW energy. 
To tear us apart from one another.
By ripping at things we can not change like our gender!

Every day new people are born.
Others die.
Everyone comes from some where different. 
Everyone has their own free will and ability to think freely. 
When has it ever worked to be negative and point fingers at a person or group of people blaming them for your or the worlds problems?

Men struggle with a lot of the same things women do. 
Men get insecure.
Men get abused.
Men get used.
Men experience sexism. 
Men have gender roles.
Men are put into boxes.

Yes there are certain things as a COMMUNITY we need to nurture into …
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The Equinox AND A Full Moon - HOW EXCITING

This post is based on and inspired by the Full Moon Astral Insights Reading for September 24/25 2019’s illumination from MysticMamma.com.





Every time I get a new e-mail about the moon from Mystic Mama, it is a reminder of what I am already working with in my life. Some things are absolutely universal. Universal in a way that we can all read it but it means something completely different to each and every one of us but it gives us insight to the inner workings of our lives. Understanding everything through the eyes of love is the only way we can come together as a new multi-cultural community. We have to stop and listen to everything around us. Listen to your neighbors- the people around you - everyone speaks. Listen to the world- sounds are all around telling us a story. The Moon and The Sun are communicating with us too. I don’t know what it is about the moon but she makes me speak my dreams.



Last winter I laid out in a snow covered yard under a full moon surrounded by gusty wind and wi…

We Have To Save Art-Selves

It's up to us.
We have to save humanity.
Humanity will be saved with creativity.
Not rigidness.
Not fear.
Not hate.
Not politics.
Not religion.



The ONLY way we can overcome this hate storm is with expression.
The freedom to express ourselves.
We have to express ourselves.
We have to listen to people express themselves.
We have to look for the deeper meaning in the expressions around us.

Stop taking things personally.
You are you.
They are them.
No one knows you the way you know yourself.
The people around you don't know your situation.
What's going on in your life is your life, no one else's.
You don't know everyone the way you know yourself.
You have to listen.
You have to process what is being said.
You have to think about what you want to say.
IF ANYTHING.



SOMETIMES THINGS DON'T NEED TO BE SAID.
Sometimes you have to just listen.
Or walk away.
Give a hug.
Say sorry.
EVEN THOUGHT YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.
We help each other feel better.
We have to CARE abo…

Self Esteem \ Confidence / Positive Self Talk

I recently had the opportunity to teach a workshop with Girls Rock Detroit during a summer camp session. When I was presented the opporunity my mind went active with ideas. What would some one like me teach to a group of 16 young girls? I didn't want to focus necessarily on music or anything music related. I wanted to think of some universal truth to work on. That is when I remembered a motif in my work that I know humanity struggles with. A topic we all struggle with from time to time.  Confidence.
Self Esteem.
Positive Self Talk.There were short lived moments of doubt when I finally found a theme for the workshop.
Who am I to teach self esteem and confidence to kids?
When I asked myself this question the answer was a no brainer.I work with people on their self esteem, confidence, and self talk anytime I do a photo session. These sessions always benefit my self esteem and confidence. Lately I've been doubting my images. I love photo sessions so much because I get to be around inc…

How do you know when it’s time to move on?

How do you know when it’s time to move on?
I’ve been assessing my entire demeanor and the people I keep around. I do this because I want to keep growing. It’s hard to look within yourself and see yourself from the outside at the same time. All I wish to achieve is being the best me I can while giving off as much good energy as possible. If I am constantly growing and changing I won’t get stagnant. I don’t want to stay the same. My foundation is strong but there is so much more we are capable of. I don’t want to flat line at 26.  As I’ve continued to evolve most beings I considered ‘friends’ have weeded themselves out. I am alone most of the time and I am fine with that. I am focused on my craft and my profession. There isn’t time for distractions or confusion. It wasn’t hard work but it is emotionally draining. I really cared about these people but soon realized they didn’t care much about me and it is too much work to care for people who don’t even love themselves. Negativity is infect…

Why I Started Posing Nude

I never imagined posing nude for 20+ years of my life.  I can’t say I feel tarnished, broken, exploited, or anything negative because I’ve posed nude. To be perfectly honest, I am stronger because of it. I wanted to explore my experiences while naked. I wanted to change my dialogue about nudity. I wanted being naked to feel normal, not contextualized. Nudity is not only sexual. The fact that we can only view nudity in private with a specific mind set or two is troublesome. Am I the only person who has been forced to think of nudity through a few specific lenses? To put it simply it’s stressful to always worry if some one is going to see me naked.  It’s a game of cat and mouse.  I shouldn’t feel that fucking vulnerable while naked.  ‘Ohh that poor girl is naked.’  ‘Oh my lord! Look it’s a naked girl shame her!!!’  I am not a whore because I am naked.  I am not a slut.  It is not degrading to pose nude or be naked in general.  No I am not looking for attention.  I am beautiful and confident. I l…